HUMAN
BEHAVIOUR, THE
BASICS
CULTURE,
MOTIVATION AND OTHER INFLUENCES
CULTURAL INFLUENCES
Firstly,
culture can be defined as; a perceived truth (rather than reality)
about a group
and its members regarding their beliefs, values, attitudes and norms of
behaviour, which have evolved from a common history, collective
knowledge and
similar conditioning. Culture is strongly influenced by race, religion,
political and social structures and the geographical and physical
environment.
Culture manifests as etiquette, communication style, the arts,
groupthink,
symbols, traditions, behaviour patterns, shared ideas, common ideals
and a way
of life.
A
few
definitions to make sure you and I are thinking similarly;
Reality: What is!
…or as the dictionary puts it “real
things or the real nature of things rather than imagined, invented or
theoretical ideas”.
Truth: A narrow perspective
on reality developed as a
result of the accident of the place and time of our birth, reinforced
by those
who seek an ally to support and perpetuate their own version of the
‘truth’.
The dictionary defines truth as ‘all the facts…
rather than that, which is
imagined or invented’.
Beliefs: Faith in a set of
learnt ‘truths’ formed as a
result of our indoctrination by the influential when we are to young to
resist,
or if you prefer the dictionary definition, ‘a feeling of
certainty that
something exists, is true or is good (or bad)’.
Values: A subjective point
of view regarding the worth of
our beliefs and the worth of the assumed or perceived beliefs, values
and
attitudes of those we view or interact with, based on our own narrow
perspective. Once again the dictionary, “the values of a
person or group are
the moral principles and beliefs that they think are
important”.
Attitudes: Personal opinion
governing rules of behaviour we
think we can get away with when dealing with others from whom we are
taking, or
to whom we are giving, in the interests of our personal wellbeing. The
dictionary ‘the way that you (or others) think and feel about
something,
especially when it shows in the way you (or others) behave’.
Perhaps you
could see these definitions as a little cynical however when we get
into the
motivational theories and ‘motivational rules’
later in this chapter you may
change your mind and agree with the thinking.
To understand
what is happening with cultural influences perhaps the following
‘cultural
iceberg’ will shed some further light. The iceberg is made up
of the above
factors and is shown below.
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Behaviours:
the
way we do or say things and the things we are prepared to do or say.
The
bit we see above the waterline!
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Attitudes:
a
stance we take and how a we feel and what we think (based on our
values)
regarding situations and individuals and our interactions between the
environment and other people
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Values:
a set of
moral standards or rules (based on our beliefs) that govern they way we
make judgements regarding the goodness or badness of factors in our
environment and that influence what we set as the norms of a correct
existence.
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Beliefs:
an
unquestioning view on how things should be and what is important based
on
our cultural assumptions and the ‘truth’ of our
existence as a social
being that we consciously or subconsciously buy in to.
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Cultural
assumptions:
‘the truth’ regarding our existence and our place
in the world
inherited and reinforced through indoctrination (usually at an early
age)
and based on the history and traditions of our predecessors.
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Remember as a
manger (or for that matter as a human being) that you can only see what
is above
the waterline and that your actions and influence will only at best
encourage or
discourage behaviours. Perhaps if you are extremely effective you may
(and
should) change attitudes, however it is almost impossible and would be
foolhardy
to attempt to change another’s Cultural Assumptions, Beliefs
or Values. You
just don’t have the time to invest.
In
the 1980’s Geert Hofstede came up with four contrasting
dimensions that
influenced how people from different nationalities behaved at work.
Based on
studies of over 116,000 workers in 50 countries he found that people
where
inclined towards four fundamental dimensions, SMALL v’s LARGE
POWER DISTANCE
(minimal status differences v’s wide gap between those in
power and the
‘followers’), INDIVIDUALISM v’s
COLLECTIVISM, (my interests take priority
v’s the groups wellbeing takes priority), MASCULINITY
v’s FEMININITY (no
sexism intended), (assertive, quantity v’s caring quality of
life) and LOW
v’s HIGH UNCERTAINTY AVOIDANCE (risk is OK v’s
safety first tendencies). He
later added the fifth dimension of SHORT TERM versus LONG TERM
orientation.
Hofstede’s
dimensions and a few of the consequences;
‘Power distance,
that is the extent to which the less powerful members of
organizations and institutions (like the family) accept and expect that
power be
distributed unequally. This represents inequality (more versus less),
but
defined from below, not from above. It suggests that the followers
endorse a
society’s level of inequality as much as the
leaders’ back it’.
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Small
Power Distance
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Large
Power Distance
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Inequality
is ‘bad’ and best
avoided and everyone has equal rights and interdependence exists
between
less and more powerful people.
Parents
and children treat each other
as ‘equals’ and teachers develop
students’ initiative and are
experts who transfer impersonal truths.
Hierarchy
in organizations means an
inequality of roles established for convenience and decentralization is
popular.
Subordinates
expect to be consulted
and the ideal boss is a competent democrat.
Local
management theories focus on role of employees.
Managers’
privileges and status symbols are frowned upon.
Skills,
wealth, power, and status need not go together and power is
based on
formal position, expertise and the ability to give rewards and the use
of
power should be legitimate and is subject to criteria of good
and
evil.
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Inequality
is natural and desired and the powerful have privileges and less
powerful
people should be dependent on the more powerful.
Parents
teach obedience and children
show respect and teachers are expected to take initiative and are gurus
who transfer personal wisdom.
Hierarchy in organizations reflects
a
natural state of human inequality and centralization is popular.
Subordinates
expect to be told what
to do; the ideal boss is a benevolent autocrat, good father.
Local
management theories focus on role of managers.
Managers’
privileges and status symbols are expected/popular.
Skills,
wealth, power, and status should go to together and power is
based on
association with powerful individuals, charisma and the ability to use
force; might prevails over right; whoever holds the power is
right
and good.
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‘Individualism
on the one side versus its opposite, collectivism,
that is the degree to
which individuals are integrated into groups. On the individualist side
we find
societies in which the ties between individuals are loose: everyone is
expected
to look after him/herself and his/her immediate family. On the
collectivist
side, we find societies in which people from birth onwards are
integrated into
strong, cohesive in-groups, often extended families (with uncles, aunts
and
grandparents) that continue protecting them in exchange for
unquestioning
loyalty.
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Individualism
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Collectivism
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Everyone
grows up to look after him/herself and his/her immediate
(nuclear)
family only, with identity is based in the individual who in turn
thinks
'I'
Speaking one's mind is a
characteristic of an honest person regardless of the situation
or
circumstances.
The
purpose of education is learning
how to learn and academic qualifications increase economic worth
and self-respect.
Relationship
employer/employee is a
contract supposed to be based on mutual advantage.
Hiring and promotion decisions are supposed to be based on competence
and
rules only.
Management is of individuals, task prevails over relationship and
individual interests prevail over collective interests.
Everyone
has a right to privacy and is expected to have a private
opinion.
Ideologies
of individual freedom prevail over those of equality and an
individual’s
self-actualisation (fulfilment) is an ultimate goal.
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People
are born into extended
families that protect them in exchange for loyalty; identity is based
in
ones social network and individuals think ‘we’.
Harmony should be maintained and direct confrontations are avoided,
there
are times when nothing should be said.
Purpose
of education is learning how
to do and qualifications are seen as important to provide entry to
higher
status groups.
Relationship
employer/employee is
perceived in moral terms, like a family link.
Hiring,
and promotion decisions take
employees' in-group into account
Management
is management of groups, relationship prevails over task and collective
interests prevail over individual interests.
Private
life is invaded by group and opinions predetermined by group
membership.
Ideologies
of equality prevail over those of individual freedom and harmony and
consensus in society are ultimate goals.
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‘Uncertainty
avoidance deals with a society's tolerance for uncertainty
and ambiguity. It
ultimately refers to a persons search for truth and indicates to what
extent
members feel either comfortable or uncomfortable in unstructured,
novel,
unknown, surprising or different from usual situations. Individuals
from
uncertainty accepting cultures are more tolerant of differing opinions;
they try
to have as few rules as possible. People within these cultures are more
matter-of-fact, thoughtful and reflective and not expected by others in
their
environment to express emotions’. The opposite type
uncertainty avoiding
cultures try to minimize the possibility of such situations by strict
laws and
rules, safety and security measures and tend to believe in one absolute
truth’; 'there can only be one truth and we have it'.
‘People in uncertainty
avoiding cultures are also more emotional and motivated by inner
nervous
energy’.
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Low
Uncertainty Avoidance
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High
Uncertainty Avoidance
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Socialized,
calm acceptance of the
unknown, risk taking is accepted and often seen as desirable.
Tolerance
is shown toward those with
differing opinions and standards of behaviour and individual or group
differences or beliefs are not seen as a threat.
Individuals
feel relatively safe and
secure and time focus is now and the future.
Relationship
with the environment is
domination or harmony and individual activity is about doing or
controlling.
People
are seen as either good or a
mixture of good and bad and individuals or groups see themselves as
responsible for their own wellbeing.
Space
is seen as private or a mixture
of public and private.
Empowerment
is accepted and
initiative is shown and mistakes are seen as learning.
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Individual/group
stress and
aggressiveness induced by anxiety about an uncertain future.
Low
tolerance for deviant ideas/
behaviour, formal rules and mechanisms to reduce risk and members
strive
to believe in a common set of absolute truths.
Individuals
feel relatively
threatened and time focus is the past and now.
Relationship
with the environment is subjugation or at best harmony and individual
activity is about being.
People
are seen as evil or at best a
mixture of good and bad and the group or the hierarchy determines
wellbeing.
Space
is public.
Instructions
are sought, responsibility avoided and mistakes are seen as
‘sins’
that will exact punishment.
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‘Masculinity
versus its opposite, femininity, refers
to the distribution of roles
between the genders. The studies revealed that (a) women's values
differ less
among societies than men's values; (b) men's values from one country to
another
contain a dimension from very assertive and competitive and maximally
different
from women's values on the one side, to modest and caring and similar
to women's
values on the other. The women in feminine countries have the same
modest,
caring values as the men; in the masculine countries they are somewhat
assertive
and competitive, but not as much as the men, so that these countries
show a gap
between men's values and women's values.
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Masculine
Societies
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Feminine
Societies
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Assertiveness
is valued.
Money
and material gain is desirable.
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Sensitivity
is valued.
Relationships
and group members’ welfare is paramount.
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Long-term
versus short-term orientation: this fifth dimension was found
in a study
among students in 23 countries around the world, using a questionnaire
designed
by Chinese scholars. It can be said to deal with virtue regardless of
truth.
Values associated with long-term orientation are thrift and
perseverance; values
associated with short-term orientation are respect for tradition,
fulfilling
social obligations, and protecting one's 'face'. Both the positively
and the
negatively rated values of this dimension are found in the teachings of
Confucius, the most influential Chinese philosopher who lived around
500 B.C.;
however, the dimension also applies to countries without a Confucian
heritage.
The following is my interpretation of the consequences.
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Short
Term Orientation
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Long
Term Orientation
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Only
‘now’ exists and we should
live for now and ourselves.
Consumption
and spending is
acceptable.
Success
is a result of applied intelligence and competence. face.
The
demands of the user or customer are the most important.
Tradition
is of little interest.
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We
should work for the future and for the next generation.
Thrift
and saving for the future is a virtue.
Perseverance
will ultimately lead to success; failure leads to shame and loss of
face.
Following
the demands of the hierarchy is desirable.
Tradition
is important.
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Obviously if
you manage/lead, a group of people with a collective attitude, that see
you the
boss as all-powerful, who value relationships over material gain and
that
‘suffer’ from high uncertainty avoidance, they are
going to become quite
unsettled if you casually announce say, a company, division or
department
restructure.
Often the
culture issue is subtler than obvious ‘national
differences’. Perhaps more
importantly for those in management are the problems and
misunderstandings occur
between those that are often seen as integrated groups of one
nationality or of
one company. For managers, cultural differences between, a sales team,
financial
control, administration, human resource, production, service, and
research &
development can cause difficulty and hamper the performance of both the
individual and the organization. Cultural diversity and the
difficulties
associated with this diversity is the subject of much intense debate in
many
companies. One company for whom I conduct training surveyed their
managers to
find the areas of their function that created the most operational
stress and
the results showed interdepartmental cultural differences as a major
cause of
problems.
Example; you
can see why difficulties may occur between members of the research
&
development department who are interested in ‘long term
visions, superior
features, safety, the best product for the customer and who talk a lot
of
technical jargon’, when they are meeting with the finance
division who are
interested in ‘cost minimization, immediate cash flow, long
term profitability
and the shareholders who talk using a lot of financial
jargon’. Add a
representative from sales, ‘market share, need it now, the
price has to be
more competitive, using sell, sell, sell talk’ and perhaps a
HR director,
‘they’re not trained, it’s too much of a
strain on the staff and they’ll
all leave, who is using long words from the last book he/she read on
the
psychology of the workplace’ and cultural issues can explode.
As
leader/managers with an ever increasing mix of people from different
backgrounds
combined with ever increasing rates of change and the need for greater
levels of
specialisation, we all need to spend more time in understanding and
managing the
cultural differences in our organizations. To help us there are some
guides that
we should personally adopt and encourage others to embrace.
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Stereotyping is an intellectually
unsound practice
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No one is an expert in your, culture
not even you
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No one can be an expert on someone
else’s culture
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Don’t make assumptions about people,
ask questions
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Never try to tell someone about their
culture… ask
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Moral judgements on a persons value
based on culture are best left to the stupid among us
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Another culture
may not be better or worse,
just different
A major point
for you to consider…
Generalising
about people based on preconceived ideas, cultural background, gender,
race,
technical or professional disciplines and career choices or on any
other basis
you can think of has no place in a manager’s mind or heart.
Although this
chapter offers for your consideration a number of ideas based on
research and to
some extent categorizes or groups people by such things as cultural
predispositions, personality type, or ego states this is done purely to
demonstrate the complexity of individuals. As an astute manager you
will always
need to see people as infinitely complex individuals that have their
own hopes,
desires and motivations that will be constantly changing as an almost
unlimited
variety of personal and business situations evolve.
PERSONALITY TYPES
Much
has been written about the role of personality on human behaviour. I
think a
good place to start is with Freud. Michael Maccoby (anthropologist and
psychotherapist) succinctly summarises Freud’s three
personality types in his
Harvard business Review, OnPoint Article on ‘Narcissistic
Leaders’. Maccoby
reports that “while Freud recognized that there are an almost
infinite variety
of personalities, he identified three main types; erotic, obsessive and
narcissistic” and that “most of
us have elements of all three”.
According
to Maccoby, Freud defines the ‘erotic’ personality
type, ‘not as a sexual
personality’, “but rather one for whom love and
above all to being loved is
most important”. “This type of person is dependant
on those people they fear
will stop loving them”. Careful observation can help you
recognise these
people as they will be the ones who are
“outer-directed”, caring, helpful,
supportive and tend to avoid conflict. “Obsessives, in
contrast are
“inner-directed”. They are self reliant and
conscientious”. Obsessives
“create and maintain order” and “look
constantly for ways to help people
listen better, resolve conflict and find win-win
opportunities”. You recognise
these people buy ‘the self help books’ on their
desk, ‘their strict
conscience, need for personal improvement, moral stance and strong
reliance on
their values’. These people tend to “lack vision,
daring and charisma”,
can usually be relied upon to ‘live up to high standards,
communicate
effectively, follow instructions and stick to the budget’.
‘Narcissists, the
third type, are independent, goal oriented, often aggressive and not
easily
impressed’. “They are innovators, driven in
business to gain power and
glory”. Narcissists are the ones that “pose
critical questions”, seem to
want to “learn everything about everything” in
their area of interest and
seek to be the admired expert in their field. ‘These people
are not victims of
their own ego, can live with isolation and are always on the look out
for
enemies’.
In
the same article Maccoby describes a fourth personality type proposed
by
psychoanalyst Erich Fromm, called the “marketing
personality”. “Marketing
personalities are more detached than erotics” and
“less likely to cement
strong ties”. “They are also less driven by
conscience than obsessives.
Instead they are motivated by a radar-like anxiety that permeates
everything
they do”. ‘Because they are so eager to please
(serve) and to alleviate this
anxiety, marketing personalities excel at selling
themselves’. These types can
on the negative side, ‘lack direction and the ability to
commit themselves’.
On the positive side marketing personalities can be ‘good
team facilitators
that add value from the colleague and/or customer
perspective’. Finally this
personality type tends to “lack the daring needed to innovate
and are to
responsive to current, rather than future customer demands”.
EGO STATES
Transactional
Analysis originated by Eric Berne is the study of sets of
ego-states of an
individual and the way in which those sets of ego-states (we are all in
subjected to and need all three) shape our social interactions.
Berne’s three
states are Child, Parent and Adult. As a child we (and those with
whom we are dealing) rely on immature childlike reasoning based on
feelings, strong
emotions and desires such as fear, anger, delight and joy.
As a parent we imitate or "borrow" perceived prejudiced parental
attitudes and rely on rules & regulations that we learnt
from our parents such as the need for criticism, guilt and the way
things should
be. Both
of these states are fraught with problems from a management (and
personal) point
of view. It is only when we act as an adult that we become capable of
non
judgemental, accurate reasoning, logical thought and astute reality
driven
behaviour. Transactional
Analysis also studies the use of these ego-states in communication
strategies in
what are described as Transactions, Scripts, and Games. The
transaction is the most basic unit interaction and, ‘consists
of a single
verbal or nonverbal stimulus and a single response’. Scripts
are ‘complex
sets of transactions, that recur’. They are the patterns of
life’s dramas,
developed during childhood, that determine the ‘destiny and
the identity of us
as individuals’. Games are agreed-upon (although not always
consciously) rules
of transacting in which there is always a pay-off to one of the
parties.
THE
CHILD ego states come in three varieties:
The adaptive child can be
the compliant, socially acceptable, rule
obeying that tries to please others. In this state we (and others),
hide, such
emotions as anger and greed in an attempt to be rewarded for doing what
is
supposed to be done. In this state an individual is driven by guilt,
fear or
shame (or avoidance of those emotions) and wants to be seen as
“good”. The
adaptive child can take a less positive stance and become driven by a
need to
rebel due to the pressure of being dependent on the goodwill of others
and
suppression of emotions that can lead to resentment. Thus, the adaptive
(rebellious) child also contains urges to subtly resist orders and
tradition. It
may procrastinate rather than openly rebel; it may get sick to get
attention; it
may devise a "script" (a life plan) to please the parent that wants
it’s son or daughter to fail or to be "bad;" or it may play
"games" to hurt itself or others. Unhappy and grouchy behaviour is a
mild for of this state and at worse it may become neurotic or
psychotic.
The Little Professor is the
intuitive, clever, observant,
conniving, manipulative part of us which figures out how to relate to
others to
get what we want. Typical of this ego state are such things as, "if I'm
nice to you" or "if I'm cute” or “I put on a happy
smile" or
"I tell you I love you” I should get my way. In the negative
"if I
throw a premeditated temper tantrum" or “if I pout and
grumble” then
I'll get what I want. The Little Professor may be doing what is
supposedly
“good” or it may be a way to create trouble.
The natural child in the
positive is the, carefree, fun loving,
impulsive, creative, excited and spontaneous part of us that can
provide much of
our motivation. The natural child also provides some of our important
“happy” emotions, such as joy and curiosity. On the
negative side when we
are unhappy it shows up us demonstrated anger and frustrated unbridled
vengeance. This part of us provides both our sense of fun and of course
the need
to be mean and nasty. In the natural child state all this occurs as
freely
expressed feelings without censoring or reference to society's norms.
To
recognise childlike behaviour you need only listen to the words and
tone and
watch the body language. If the child ego is dominating you or when
others are
attempting to face up to you, the terms being used will be “I
want”
(demanding), “It’s not fair”
(complaining),
“Yes that’s right however I” (placating)
or “If
you do this,
I’ll do” (bargaining). If someone is using a child
ego
state and they are
attempting to avoid something you will hear things like,
“It’s not my
fault” (pouting), “I just don’t
know”
(confusion), “I won’t do it”
(angry) or “alright if I must I will try”
(avoiding).
Our
child is the part of us that is self centred and very powerful and I
guess for
some our greatest positive as it contains our most intense feelings
such a love
and joy. Of course on the other side it can give us much trouble as it
also
contains our fear and anger and stimulates our need to fight some of
the
oppressions of growing up.
THE
PARENT decides, without reasoning, how to react to
situations, what is good
or bad, is judgemental can be controlling or supportive and tells us
how others
(and we) ‘should’ behave. The Parent comes in two
forms: firstly the Critical
Parent, which is the voice in our head that provides us with, negative
self-talk, “the truth” that can bar or filter
reality, gives opinions of low
self worth, induces self reprimand and conjures up expectations of
disaster. The
Critical Parent is what makes us say such negative things as: "You're a
bad
person”, “I’m a stupid person”,
“hey ugly”, “your crazy”, or
“you’re lazy”. The Critical Parent can
make people feel “not OK” and
force them to do things they don't want to do. The second type
of parent is
the Nurturing Parent. This
ego state loves our child unconditionally and says
things like: "I
love you", "You're a winner”, "smart move",
"wonderful” or "now how good is that”. The
nurturing parent is
sensitive, empathetic full of understanding, is caring and undemanding.
If
a parental ego state is coming to the fore and you are being confronted
the
dialogue will be more like this; “what are you up to
here?”
(angry), “you
must fix this problem now” (demanding), “I knew
this would
happen”,
(condescending) or “I you don’t do something about
this I
will”
(threatening). If the parent is trying to avoid a problem the language
will be
more like, “it’s your
responsibility”
(blaming), “I want you to do exactly as I instructed
you”
(controlling); it’s a small matter or it could be worse
(avoiding).
Remember
that in a ‘transaction’ you have to deal with your
inner parents and
children as well as the other persons parents and children. If for
example you
as acting with your ‘critical parent’ ego state you
are going to have great
difficulty if you are dealing with someone else’s
‘rebellious child’. You
will need to overcome your parental attitude and activate their
positive child,
nurturing parent or their (and your) adults.
THE ADULT.
“When in the Adult ego state the person functions as a human
computer.
It operates on data it collects and stores or uses to make
decisions
according to a logic-based program”. “When in the
Adult ego state the person
uses logical thinking to solve problems making sure that Child or
Parent
emotions do not contaminate the process”. You may be
tempted to
“conclude from this that emotions are not
good”. This is not the case
(except where you and others become immobilised by those emotions) and
“it
only means that in order to be rational and logical we need to be able
to
separate ourselves from our emotions”.
“Being a mature human being or
grownup is not the same as being in the Adult ego state”.
“Little children
can be in their Adult and well-adjusted grown-ups use their Parent and
Child all
the time”. The thing to remember when being an adult is that
the answers you
and those with whom you deal come up with will only be sound if the
data or
facts you are using are correct. The computer cliché of
‘garbage in garbage
out’ definitely applies. ‘Sometimes the Adult uses
information which has its
source in the Child (delusion) or in the Parent (prejudice) and which
may be
incorrect’.
If we are to
be effective, problem solving managers we need to use such terms when
confronting others as; “we can solve this problem
together” (looking for
solutions), “let me explain my problem
(informing)”, can you help me”
(rational request) or “I am upset because”
(personal disclosure). If you are
on the receiving end facing an adult who wishes to maintain an adult to
adult
stance you hear such things as, “I will help you solve your
problem”
(support in finding a solution), “please tell me
more” (information
seeking), “can I ask you a few questions to ensure I
understand” (confirming
the facts) and “I believe understand how you feel”
(empathising and defusing
tension).
LIFE
POSITION
In his book
“I’m OK - You’re OK”, Thomas A.
Harris another famous
proponent of transactional analysis develops the idea even further.
Harris
explains as children we decide on one of the following three
“life
positions”:
1. I’m Not Ok (with me) - You’re Ok (with me)
2. I’m Not Ok (with me) - You’re Not Ok (with me)
3. I’m Ok (with me) - You’re Not Ok (with me)
The
basis for
this decision is what Harris calls stroking and non-stroking.
Strokes are literally the physical contacts and comforting such as
being
picked up and nursed that occur in infancy. Harris says,
“during
the time of
helplessness there are an infinite number of total and uncompromising
demands on
the child”. “On the one hand, the urges to explore,
to
know, to crush and
bang, to express feelings and to experience all the pleasant sensations
associated with movement and discovery”. “On the
other
hand, there is the
constant demand from the environment, essentially the parents, that he
(or she)
give up these basic satisfactions for the reward of parental
approval”. “The
predominant by product of the frustrating, civilizing process is
negative
feelings”. “The child by virtue of its small size
and
helplessness
inevitably considers itself inferior to the adult figure(s) in its
environment”. ”On the basis of these feelings the
little
person concludes
I’m not OK”, in a situation that perhaps is not
“OK”. The other major conclusion the
infant comes to
is that the
persons who provide warmth, food and stroking are obviously therefore
automatically OK. The first and
most common or “universal” life position, formed by
the
first year of life
is; I’m Not Ok - You’re OK.
Harris
believes ‘that by the end of the second year of life, or
early in the third,
the child has decided on one of the three positions by confirming the
1st
“universal position” or by “giving way to
position 2 or 3”. ‘The
position at this stage is and even though it is an unconscious decision
- cannot
be changed’.
The second
position I’m Not OK - You’re Not OK comes as
“by the end of the first year
the child is walking”. If the parent
(“mother”) is “cold and non
stroking, if she only put up with him (her) during the first year
because she
had to” a sense of hopeless will develop. If “in
addition punishments become
harder and more often” the child is likely to conclude that
the rest of the
world is hopeless and in severe cases may reject all future loving
overtures, be
difficult to reach or even become mentally disturbed.
I’m OK -
You’re Not OK, is the most dysfunctional position and results
in cases when a
child is battered during childhood and the child realizes that the
parents are
not OK. Out of sheer self-defence, or ‘while this little
individual is healing
in the sense of “lying there licking his(her)
wounds”, the child experiences
a sense of comfort (self stroking) alone and by his/herself, if for no
other
reason than his/her improvement is in such contrast to the gross pain
he/she has
just experienced’. It becomes a case of
“I’ll be all right if you leave me
alone”. I’m OK by myself.
The only
exception to the three OK positions above, according to Harris, occurs
when a
person consciously decides to replace his or her dysfunctional life
position
with the fourth and healthiest life position - I’m OK -
You’re OK. “The
first three positions are based on feelings”. “The
fourth position is based
on thought, faith and the wager of action”. This confidence
or belief in
better outcomes based on our actions is the
“transcending” into the “why
not” rather than being locked in the
“why” of the first three states.
Being in a state of I’m OK – You’re OK is
a conscious individual decision.
Harris
proposes that people should strive to keep their transactions in the
Adult
state. Parent and Child feelings
cannot be ignored or erased however these are states that can inhibit
relationships and cause psychological difficulties if not recognized
and kept in
check. This final position will
only come from “a collection of recordings which play OK
outcomes to
transactions, successes in terms of correct probability estimating,
successes in
terms of integrated actions which, make sense, which are programmed by
the Adult
and not by the Parent or Child”.
RACKETS
As result of
our continuos game playing and acting out of scripts with predicted
outcomes we
accumulate negative feelings that become our emotional racket. This
leads
us all to create or see in situations the elements that confirm our
negative
emotions and the truth about our own existence. We all run these
emotional
rackets or “unwanted conditions” because it
provides us with an “I told
you so” payoff. Typical rackets
are to endure personal suffering such as “having something
you don’t want or
wanting something you don’t have”. When you suffer,
you and others get to
feel sorry for you. When feeling sorry for yourself you can convince
yourself
you are victim of circumstances. You can say I am not really in control
so it is
not my fault. ‘Rackets are ways to compensate for, or help us
resist life’s
undesirable events without taking responsibility for doing something to
change
the inevitability of it all. The compensation or “dynamics of
resisting
actually keep the racket and the related mood of suffering in
place”. Some
examples of rackets, I’m too old, I’m too scared,
it’s too hard for me to
be do, you don’t understand my culture, safety first, I was
destined to be
poor, I come from an underprivileged back ground, I owe a loyalty to my
working
class background, that’s my lot in life, life is unfair and I
will suffer it
in dignity, I’m a victim of circumstances, I’m not
to blame. ‘Continually
apologizing, scolding yourself, or resorting to giving (or receiving)
abuse and
feeling perpetually sorry are all rackets’.
“It’s much easier being sorry
or apologetic than responsible and proactive”.
So how do you
know when you or (someone else) is running a racket? If you or they
are; not
taking responsibility, being willing to suffer in silence, playing the
role of
the victim, feeling justified with telling “little white
lies’ constantly
resiting a similar set of circumstances, refusing to change, inactive
in to
overcoming obstacles or procrastinating a racket is in play.
What are the
payoffs for running our racket? We can pretend life is beyond our
control. We
can “co-conspire with others by not mentioning when we see
them play their
rackets” because “misery enjoys company”.
This self-limiting racket
behaviour remains in place because of the extensive and specific
payoffs we get
by keeping it there. “Some of these payoffs include:
*We get to
be
right and make others wrong.
*We get to
avoid being made wrong ourselves.
*We get to
win or avoid losing.
*We get to
dominate and avoid being dominated.
*We get to
avoid being responsible for effectively managing relationships and
communication.
*We get to
be
a victim with all the accompanying pity and sympathy that victims
deserve.
*We get to
justify not acting differently“
The only way to solve the problem of
rackets is to acknowledge reality and deal with it by developing
honesty in
relationships, open communication, expression of feelings, a
willingness to
expose your emotions, honouring your and others values and refusing to
remain in
an unacceptable situation. You as a manager must act and encourage
others to act
with integrity and make it legitimate for you and others to seek
happiness,
dream of a better future and take some measure of control of your life
and allow
and help others take control of theirs.
MOTIVATION THEORIES
INTRODUCTION
As a
leader/manager, you need to interact with followers, peers,
‘superiors’ and
other people whose support you need to accomplish your objectives. To
gain their
support, you must be able to understand and influence them. The key to
influencing people is in understanding the inherent qualities of human
nature
and of at least the basics of motivation. Human nature can be defined
as the
common qualities of all human beings. We all behave according to
certain
principles of human nature some of which have been described above. It
is a fact
that we develop these principles based on a number of influences that
to some
extent are a matter of chance.
Motivation Defined
“The emotional forces, wants, needs,
urges or drive within us that
influence our behaviour” or ‘a willingness to exert
high levels of effort
conditioned by the efforts ability to satisfy some individual
need’.
Needs, Wants, Urges
Defined
Needs, wants,
urges (henceforth grouped and referred to as a cravings) ‘are
internal states
that make certain outcomes’ or results appear attractive.
‘When a craving is
not satisfied tension is created within us which in turn stimulates an
urge or
drive causing us to seek a solution or attain a goal in an attempt to
satisfy
the craving and thus reduce our tension’. A vivid example of
how this works is
the craving smokers experience particularly when they are trying to
quit.
If we
understand that our ‘followers’ are also influenced
by various states of
tension and if we are able to increase this tension then our followers
will
exert higher levels of effort as they attempt to reduce their tension
levels. We
also obviously need to direct this effort toward some type of shared
vision that
we, as the leader and they, as followers believe is worthwhile. In a
work
situation as managers we must obviously ensure that the
individuals’ cravings
are in harmony with organisational goals. ‘If not
appropriately directed,
followers might (and usually do), exert effort in wasted activities
that could
run counter to the interests or the organization’.
Maslow - The
Hierarchy of Needs
Abraham
Maslow (1908 - 1970) felt that the basic human needs were arranged in a
hierarchical order. He based his theory on healthy, creative people who
used all
their talents, potential, and capabilities. At the time this differed
from most
psychology research studies that were based on the observation of
disturbed
people. There are two major groups of human needs: basic - including
physiological, such as food, water, and sleep and psychological - such
as
affection, security, and self-esteem. The basic needs are also called
‘deficiency needs’ because if an individual does
not meet them, then that
person will strive to make up the deficiency. The higher needs are
called
‘growth needs’. These include such things as
justice, ‘goodness’, order,
unity, glamour, status, beauty and self-fulfilment. Deficiency needs
Maslow
argued take priority over growth needs. People who lack food or water
cannot
attend to justice or beauty.
Maslow’s
Needs Hierarchy
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Self–actualisation
Growth,
Achieving one’s potential, self fulfilment
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Self Esteem
Self
Respect, Status, Recognition, Autonomy, Achievement
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Social
Belonging,
Social Activities, Love, Affection, Acceptance, Friendship
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Security,
Protection from danger both physical and
emotional
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Hunger,
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Maslow
proposed that due to the immediacy of the need for such things as food
and water
that they are primary source and direction of a person's goal. A need
higher in
the hierarchy will only become a motive of behaviour if the needs below
it have
been satisfied. He therefore proposes that each level must be fully
satisfied
before a person can strive to reach the next level. It follows
therefore that if
a leader/manager knows where a person is located on this scale it can
help him
or her in determining an effective method of influence. For example,
offering an
individual who is motivated by in self esteem cravings some form of
public
recognition (a certificate, employee of the month status) will have a
far
greater impact than using the same reward to a minimum wage person who
is
struggling to satisfy lower level Physiological or Safety cravings.
Maslow also
proposed that lower level needs where satisfied externally and those on
higher
levels internally.
Almost no one
stays in one particular level for an extended period. We constantly
strive to
move up, while at the same time forces outside our control try to push
us down.
For example single successful young males seeking public recognition
may move
‘down’ from craving status and recognition to being
driven by safety
considerations when they marry and start a family. Conversely
self-improvement,
promotion, ‘luck’ or a change of job can
‘push’ those on the lower
levels ‘up’ the hierarchy. I believe our goal, as
leader/managers should be
to help our people obtain the competencies that will permanently push
them up
the hierarchy.
Note Maslow offered no evidence for
his theory and several studies that sought to validate the theory found
no
support for it. Personal experience and observation however tells me
that the
theory has some validity.
Herzberg - Hygiene and Motivational
Factors
Psychologist
Frederick Herzberg in 1959 published The
Motivation to Work in which he offered a list of motivational factors
more
closely related to work. The lists are based on Maslow's Hierarchy of
Needs and
were the result of investigations where he asked people to describe
situations
where they felt exceptionally ‘good’ and
‘bad’ about their jobs.
Factors Affecting Job Attitudes
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Company
policy
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Supervision
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Relationship
w/Boss
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Work
conditions
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Salary
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Relationship
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Achievement
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Recognition
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Work
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Responsibility
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Advancement
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From his research Herzberg concluded that
intrinsic (inner) factors such as
achievement and recognition lead to job satisfaction whereas extrinsic
(external) factors such as company policy, administration and
interpersonal
relationships can lead to job dissatisfaction. He stated that if a
manager
removed the dissatisfying element from work it did not follow that the
job then
became satisfying. Herzberg also concluded that this meant that there
were duel
continuums that came into play. Rather than the traditional view that
the
opposite of satisfaction was dissatisfaction he offered the following:
Satisfaction No
Satisfaction
No
dissatisfaction
Dissatisfaction
Herzberg introduced the concept of Hygiene
factors
to the equation. Hygiene factors he suggests must be satisfied in a
work
environment before motivation can be addressed and the appropriate
stimulus
applied. That is, you cannot use a person’s motivation until
all the Hygiene
factors are met. Herzberg's needs are specifically job related opposed
to
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs which reflect all needs in a persons life.
Note: Many have criticized
Herzberg’s work claiming that his procedures where invalid in
that we tend to
blame others for our failures and credit ourselves with successes.
Herzberg
assumes a relationship between satisfaction and productivity and no
proof was
offered to support a high level relationship between these issues.
Douglas McGregor -
Theory X and Theory Y
McGregor
developed a philosophical perception of opposite types of people with
his
“X” (negative view) and “Y”
(positive view). These opposing perceptions
outline how people may view human behaviour at work can be summarized
as
follows:
Theory X
· People
naturally dislike work and will
avoid it if possible.
· People
are lazy and must be coerced,
controlled, directed or threatened to achieve objectives.
· People
avoid responsibility, prefer to
be directed, and have little or no ambition.
· People
seek mainly security, will
place this craving above all else and generally lack ambition.
Theory Y
· People
see or feel that work is as
natural as play and rest.
· People
are not lazy and will exercise
self-direction and control if they are committed to the objectives.
·
People learn to accept and seek
responsibility.
· Commitment
to objectives depends on the
rewards associated with an individual’s achievement.
· Creativity,
ingenuity, and imagination
are widely distributed among the working population.
From my
experience “X” is often the view that managers take
towards their staff, I
guess because it is ‘safer’ and makes it easy to
justify our desire for
manage through the simple power of our authority. If you take the
“Y”
approach you will need to delegate authority and maintain personal
responsibility, which many find difficult. A ‘boss’
for me can be viewed as
taking the theory X approach, while a leader can be thought of as
taking the Y
approach.
Note: McGregor
is reported to have favoured the ‘Y’ assumptions.
In my experience both
types and mixtures exist.
Clayton Alderfer -
Existence/Relatedness/Growth (ERG)
Clayton Alderfer, in his
Existence/Relatedness/Growth (ERG) Theory of Needs, theorized that
there are
three groups of needs:
· Existence - This group of
needs is
concerned with obtaining basic requirements for material existence,
such as
physiological and safety needs. This need may be satisfied by money
earned in a
job to buy food, home, clothing, etc.
· Relationships - This
group of needs
centres on or is built upon the desire to establish and maintain
interpersonal
relationships
· Growth - These needs are
met by
personal development often provided by a job, career, or profession.
Alderfer's
ERG theory also states that more than one need may be influential at
the same
time. A person can for instance be working on growth although existence
or
relatedness cravings are not satisfied, or, all three cravings can be
operating
at once. The theory also states that if the gratification of a
higher-level need
is frustrated, the desire to satisfy a lower level need will increase.
He
identifies this phenomenon as the "frustration/regression dimension."
Its relevance on the job is that even when the upper-level needs are
frustrated,
a job may still provide for the basic physiological needs upon which
one would
then be focused.
The ERG
theory seems to be more consistent with modern thinking regarding the
differences found in individuals. Cultural, family and educational
backgrounds
can alter the driving force that a group of cravings have for an
individual.
Some cultures for example instil a craving to please the family mentor
or have a
strong social conscience which influences individuals to place there
social
needs before their physiological needs. A good example of this is found
in many
Asian families where elder children often pay to educate and support
the younger
siblings, usually at the request of the family head. In other societies
a sense
of individual freedom with an implied right to succeed or fail on your
own
merits is the more likely norm.
David
McClelland’s Theory of Needs
McClelland
focuses on three needs:
The need for Achievement: the need to perform
well
at a given task or “the drive to excel or to achieve in
relation to a set of
standards and to strive to succeed”.
Need for Power:
“The need to be involved in influence
and influence relationships” and “to make others
behave in a way they
would not have behaved otherwise”.
Need for Affiliation:
“the need for friendship and close relationships”
or to be part of the
group.
Achievers recognized
by a number of observable traits:
Like to take responsibility
Problem solvers
Seek feedback
Set themselves moderately challenging goals
Not gamblers, prefer a 50/50 chance
Avoid very easy or very hard tasks
Believe that easy = no challenge = no satisfaction
Money
is only a measure of performance
Power
Seekers are
recognizable by demonstrating:
A desire to be in charge
Strive to influence
Competitive
Status oriented
Not so concerned with effective performance
Affiliation
Seekers
recognized by the following traits;
Want to be liked
Look for friendships
Co-operative in situations
Don’t like competition
Seek mutual understanding
As a
manager/leader you will need to learn how to recognize and use these
traits to
successfully utilize the strengths or natural tendencies of your
followers.
Cognitive Evaluation
Theory (Deci & Ryan)
This theory
explores the influence of extrinsic rewards (introduced external
factors, such
as pay for effort, promotion or improved working conditions) and
intrinsic
rewards (internal, part of our basic nature, such as achievement,
responsibility
or competence) on an individual’s level of motivation. The
theory and
supporting research suggests that if you as a manager/leader offer an
employee
extrinsic rewards for work that was intrinsically rewarding due to the
pleasure
of its content, a decreased level of motivation will result.
An
explanation for this loss of motivation is that the individual senses a
loss of
control over their behaviour so the previous intrinsic motivation
disappears.
Additionally the internal reasoning for doing the job, why he or she
wants to do
it shifts from an internal to external focus that may be incongruent
with the
person’s willingness to do the job in the first place.
Looking for higher
motivation levels and better job performance by offering rewards for
performance
could create a negative outcome.
Note:
Detractors of this theory point out that much of the testing of this
theory was done with students not paid employees. ‘Secondly
evidence suggests
that very high intrinsic motivation levels are highly resistant to the
detrimental impacts of extrinsic rewards’. The theory
therefore ‘may have
limited application to work practices, as most low-level jobs are not
very
intrinsically interesting, whereas high level and professional jobs
have
inherently high levels of intrinsic rewards’.
Edwin
Locke – Goal Setting Theory
Edwin Locke
proposes that an individual’s intentions to work toward a
goal are a major
source of motivation. His theory is based on a cognitive approach to
how human
beings function (perception, conception and using ones mental
powers/faculties).
With a cognitive approach to human behaviour you must assume that an
individuals
own purposes will be the major force in determining his or her
behaviour and the
primary influences on the individual are their beliefs, values,
attitudes,
feelings and expectations. In other words goals tell an employee what
needs to
be done and how much effort is required. Evidence suggests that
specific goals
increase performance and that difficult goals, if accepted, will result
in
higher performance than do easy goals.
This theory
explains that the issues of feedback on performance, participation in
goal
setting, belief in own competence and cultural background all play a
major role
in the effectiveness of goal setting in motivation. In short the
‘rules’
are:
Feedback
leads to higher performance than does non-feedback
Self-monitoring
is more potent than external monitoring
Employees
who participate in goal setting will try harder
Participation
promotes ownership and acceptance goal value
Goals
become more potent if they are made public
Belief
in personal competency leads to greater belief in success
Goal
setting works better in cultures where subordinates are independent and
accept
empowerment
It
also works better where employees have low levels of uncertainty
avoidance
It
is more effective in cultures where work performance is directly
related to
quality of life
Reinforcement Theory
– ‘The Carrot and the Stick’
This theory expounds a
‘behavioristic’ approach
to motivation and assumes that behavior is a result of its
consequences.
Theorists who support this approach believe that you need not be
concerned about
internal mental states, prior knowledge, learning styles or current
levels of an
individual’s level of understanding (internal cognitive
events). Rather they
argue that ‘reinforces’, (consequences that
immediately follow behavior)
will, if they are ‘good’ lead to a repetition of
the behavior and if they
are bad will lead to an avoidance of the behavior.
Although
it can be argued that this theory is widely accepted in many circles,
experience
shows us that this philosophy ignores much that is known about human
behavior.
In addition it is likely (if applied in isolation) to stimulate
behaviour
designed to do as little as possible to avoid the
‘stick’ and as little as
possible to gain acceptable levels of reward or the
‘carrot’. If the object
of motivation is to strive to create excellence and superior
performance the
danger of using this technique is that the leader/manager will only
create a
comfortable state of trouble free mediocrity.
Equity Theory – J. Stacy
Adams
This
theory states that individuals compare their level of job inputs and
outcomes
with those of others and then actively seek to eliminate any
inequities. In
other words if we believe that we are being correctly rewarded for our
efforts
in relation to others a state of justice exists, however if we perceive
ourselves as being unjustly treated in relation to others we experience
equity
tension.
The benchmark
that is chosen by each individual is important for the leader/manger if
he or
she is to uncover an individual’s motivation. These
benchmarks or ‘referent
comparisons are:
Self-inside,
experiences in other positions inside the organization
Self-outside,
experiences in other positions outside the organization
Other-inside,
other employees within the organization
Other-outside,
other employees outside the organization
Another
interesting aspect of this theory is that comparisons can be made on
the
employees past treatment in relation to another current treatment. This
particularly comes into play when you are hiring new staff. If the
entry-level
wage for an existing employee hired two years ago was $1,000.00 per
month and
today you offer the same position at $1,200.00
per month it is likely that existing employees will see this as
inequitable.
This situation will occur, even if the existing employees are paid in
excess of
the $1,200.00 you are now offering.
Employees
will take one of six actions to remedy inequities:
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Change their level of input, reduce
their level of effort
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Change there outcomes, where reward is
linked to output, reduce quality to improve quantity
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Change their self-perception (of
worth), maybe I really am a workaholic
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Distort their perception of others,
that guys got a hard job
·
Change their referent, I’m doing
better than my sister is
·
Quit the job
Factors that may be used by individuals judging
their input levels include, effort experience, education, time
perceived
competence, skills and knowledge. Factors that may be seen as outcomes
include,
salary, prospects increasing financial rewards, promotion prospects,
levels of
praise and levels of public recognition.
Experience
shows that any manner of measurements can be devised to test the
justice of
relative staff situations. For example I once had a colleague who was
displeased
with a $4,600.00 salary increase because staff in more junior positions
where
given a $ 2,100.00 increase which represented 12% over their previous
pay
levels. The cause of the discomfort was that the colleague had only
received an
8% increase hence the gap between the two positions had narrowed
causing an
inequitable margin between the two jobs or a perceived diminution in
his
relative importance. The validity of this theory really becomes obvious
and
proven when new company car parks are being allocated or new offices
are being
designed.
Effective
managers must openly share the reward decision-making process with
their
staff/followers if it is culturally acceptable to do so. If it is not
acceptable
to share decision-making then at least an open sharing of information
on how
decisions where made must be offered. The process must also be seen as
being
consistent and in line with unbiased practices. The object of this
approach is
to prove:
Procedural
Justice, i.e. a process that is perceived as fair
and
Distributive
Justice, i.e. there is a fair allocation of available rewards
Expectancy
Theory
Victor
Vroom’s Expectancy Theory states that an individual will act
in a certain way
based on “the strength of a person's belief about whether or
not a particular
job performance is attainable” (expectation)
and that the act will be followed by a given outcome (instrumentality)
and on
the attractiveness (valance) of that outcome to the individual. The
theory
therefore focus’s on three relationships:
Effort -
Performance link (How hard will I have to work?)
Performance
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Reward link (What is the reward?)
Reward -
Attractiveness link (How attractive is the reward?)
Expectancy theory offers another insight into
why
many people are not motivated in their jobs. Looking at proposition
one, if
employees do not perceive themselves as competent they may believe that
no
matter how much effort they exert they will not receive recognition as
a top
performer. In addition most appraisal systems take account of other
factors such
as loyalty, initiative, courage, third party perceptions on ability to
be
promoted and general presentation. Many employees see the performance
reward
linkage as being very weak. I have heard people in a number of
organizations say
‘why bother with a staff appraisal and then give an across
the board 5%
increase to everyone’. In the last relation ship the
individuals personal
judgments and personal goals come strongly into play. If you offer a
promotion
to someone who is looking for more intellectually challenging technical
problems
to solve the reward offered will be ineffective. More money may not be
attractive to someone who craves more personal time to be with his or
her
family.
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